Same Fight, Different Day: Why We Keep Doing What Doesn’t Work

"I work long hours so I can buy coke so I can work long hours so I can buy coke..."
Remember that old commercial? The guy walking in circles, repeating the same cycle over and over?
We laugh because it’s absurd.
But isn’t that what we do in marriage?
We avoid talking… so we build resentment… so we avoid talking… so we build resentment.
We criticize to feel heard… which creates distance… which makes us criticize more.
We withdraw… so we won’t argue… which leads to disconnection… and more arguments.
We know it’s not working.
We know it makes no sense.
But we keep doing it anyway.

Unfortunately, your marriage won’t change until you change the pattern.

In Marriage in Bloom, I help couples stop circling the same emotional drain and start building new, healthy, God-centered rhythms that actually work.

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It’s time to stop going in circles and start moving forward—on purpose.

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