Raising Good Humans: Insights for Dads with Grown Kids

Ever wonder what happens when your kids fly the nest? As a dad of four grown children, I've been there, and let me tell you, it's a whole new ballgame.

In this eye-opening episode, I sit down with Rob Finlay, entrepreneur, philanthropist, and author of "Hey Dad: Everything You Should Have Learned About in Life But Didn't." We tackle the often-overlooked topic of parenting beyond 18 years old.

Rob shares his insights on:
• Transitioning from a "high school coach" to a "pro coach" parenting style
• Balancing guidance with independence as your kids become adults
• The importance of staying present and connected in a digital world
• How to cultivate a relationship where your adult children still turn to you for advice

We also dive into Rob's hilarious middle-of-the-night phone call about diesel fuel that sparked his book idea. It's a perfect example of the unexpected challenges that come with parenting young adults.

Key takeaways:
• Why letting your kids fail is crucial for their growth
• The importance of having your own purpose as your children leave home
• How to expose your kids to adult situations without hovering
• The value of building a supportive community around your young adults

Whether you're a dad of toddlers looking ahead or already navigating the empty nest, this episode offers valuable insights on maintaining strong connections with your kids as they grow into adulthood.

Plus, Rob shares his thoughts on why it's okay to relax a little – your kids will be fine if you focus on raising good humans.

Ready to learn how to evolve your parenting game for the long haul? Let's dive in!

Connect with Rob Finlay:
https://robfinlay.com
https://www.facebook.com/people/Robert-J-Finlay
https://x.com/robjfinlay
https://www.instagram.com/robjfinlay
https://www.linkedin.com/in/robjfinlay
https://www.youtube.com/@Robjfinlay

Chapters
00:00:00 - Introduction and Rob's Favorite Dad Moment
00:05:47 - The Transition from High School to Pro Coaching in Parenting
00:12:17 - Cultivating Relationships with Adult Children
00:24:34 - The Importance of Being Present and Having a Purpose
00:36:51 - Advice for Dads on Parenting Beyond 18

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