“The Kid in You Runs Your Life”

You think you’re in control. But you’re not.

You’re not the adult in the driver’s seat like you pretend to be.
You’re not making choices from logic.
You’re not “figuring life out” like everyone thinks.

Because the truth is —
Your younger self is still calling the shots.

That 6-year-old version of you...
The one who felt invisible.
The one who had to perform to earn love.
The one who never felt safe unless they were perfect...

That version of you still runs your entire life.

And you don’t even realize it.

You think you want that high-paying job, that perfect body, that dream relationship.
But peel it all back… and what do you really want?

You want to feel enough. You want to feel chosen. You want to feel safe.

Not as an adult, but as the kid who never got it.

That’s why you overthink every text.
That’s why you sabotage the good things.
That’s why even when life looks “great” on paper, you still feel hollow inside.

You’re not chasing success — you’re chasing emotional survival.
You’re not looking for love — you’re begging not to be abandoned again.
You’re not setting goals — you’re building walls so you don’t feel like that hurt little kid anymore.

Everything you do… is a subconscious strategy to heal your past.

But here’s the thing: No amount of chasing will ever fix what only healing can do.

Because if you don’t stop and look your inner child in the eyes —
If you don’t sit with them, love them, reparent them —
You’ll spend your whole life running from wounds you didn’t cause…

…while calling it “ambition,” “love,” or “growth.”

Let me be real with you — most people never wake up to this.

They just keep replaying the same old movie: new cast, new location, same pain, same ending.

And I don’t want that for you.

This video isn’t just something to watch.

It’s something to feel.

To remember who you were before the world told you who to be.

You owe that version of yourself more than this endless cycle.

You owe them peace. You owe them love. You owe them freedom.

So if you’re tired of the overthinking, the self-sabotage, the toxic patterns that feel too familiar…

Start here.

Face the one person you've been avoiding your whole life — your inner child.

And when you do?

Life stops being a fight. It starts becoming yours.

With Love,
—Haresh.