Am I The A-hole For LEAVING My CHEATING Fiancé And Then CUTTING FINANCIAL SUPPORT?

Am I The A-hole For LEAVING My CHEATING Fiancé And Then CUTTING FINANCIAL SUPPORT? ThatOne Number

A story about how a man named Paul, after supporting his fiancée Andrea and her impoverished family for years, discovered she was cheating on him and made the painful decision to end the relationship and cut all financial support.

Paul had been with Andrea since high school and, after becoming successful in IT, provided for her and her struggling family—including housing, private schooling for her sisters, and medical treatment for her mother. Everything changed when he caught Andrea kissing another man, later revealed to be an ex. Devastated, Paul left and refused to reconcile, despite pressure from her family, his own parents, and mutual friends who downplayed the betrayal.

Eventually, Paul moved out, ended all financial help, and distanced himself from everyone who sided with Andrea. Her family, unable to sustain their living conditions without his help, spiraled back into poverty. Andrea begged him to reconsider—not just for her, but for her mother—but Paul stood firm, feeling abandoned and unsupported through his emotional trauma.

He shared his story online to ask if he was wrong for cutting off support, especially since some blamed him for potentially worsening her family's suffering. Most replies, however, validated his decision, helping him begin to move forward.

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