You Can't Teach Your Kid To Be Calm When You Do This

I talk about being the Lighthouse in my father transformation program Men Of Fire. That means we are warm, light the way, and are immovable no matter how hard the waves are crashing.

The storm we face as fathers mostly comes from ourself. It's how we react to everyday stresses. Your wife is irritable, how do you react, your kids are irritating you, how do you react.

The same trigger could happen to 100 fathers and you would get 100 different reactions. Let's say your son walks into the house with muddy boots.

Some fathers would meltdown and start screaming because they've already told him to leave his boots outside-some fathers would say nothing and not address the situation-other fathers would calmly, warmly, and with strength guide the behavior without melting down.

Everyone in your life will be imperfect including you. We should not need perfection from people to get the best of us.

The amount of perfection we need in the people around us for us to be happy is the level of our discipline and self-control.

I truly controlled and disciplined man can walk into pure chaos and feel in control.

An undisciplined, out of control man needs everything around him to be perfect and structured so there is no chance for failure because he needs perfection to succeed.

Your daily habits, routines, and discipline are what give you the self control to thrive in chaotic times.

Neglecting your health and self-discipline is the quickest way to become an out of control father.

Not only do you need to stay disciplined but your family is counting on it.

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