Why Boring Habits Are the Secret to an Extraordinary Marriage

It’s easy to fall in love with the exciting parts of marriage — the big moments, the spontaneous date nights, the surprise getaways.

But you know what really builds a lasting, connected relationship?
Boredom.

Not the kind that signals neglect — the kind that shows up as routine.
Waking up and choosing kindness, again.
Asking, “How was your day?” — again.
Holding hands during a walk you’ve taken a hundred times — again.
Apologizing even when it feels repetitive — again.

These “boring” moments are the daily deposits that keep love rich.
They are the habits that protect connection when passion fades, when schedules get full, and when life feels… ordinary.

The truth? If you want an extraordinary marriage, you’ve got to fall in love with the ordinary work of keeping it strong.

And that’s exactly what we talk about in Marriage in Bloom — and on my podcast, The High Ticket Woman (available on your favorite platform).

Ready to stop chasing highs and start building something holy?

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