Tending graves can be emotive and therapeutic

In homeopathy like cures like. Elements similar to the "issue" are presented to the "issue" & healing occurs.
Grief, death, longing for death, fear of death can be processed by being close to the subject causing an issue.
The dead do communicate via several means subtle and big and grand. Bodies may leave our senses but essences of life forms are carved in the fabric of everything and can be accessed and communed with if we look feel listen touch sense and know. Most of humanity de sensitised all senses and have no idea of the vastness of moreness that is partying everywhere we are. The dead do not die and their graves a sacred space whether they are nought but soil and weeds or filled with the crown jewels which in essence is what a grave is, a marker in mother earth of the jewels that walked upon her, a space eternally sacred for those of pulsating hearts