Transformational Change of Attachment, Schemas, and Sexuality through Memory Reconsolidation

Originally published on YouTube 12/14/24.
What does psychological, emotional, and sexual change entail? Before we dive into the change process for the sexuality issues I usually address, it would be good to review the processes of transformational change of emotions, behavioral problems, attachment styles, and outdated schemas. We'll see how experiential therapies--and even certain ministry approaches--use memory reconsolidation to edit the emotions, behaviors, and core beliefs associated with implicit memories. If you're a client, this would be a great video to help orient you to the therapy process.

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References:
Psychologist Tori Olds' playlist on the process of transformation: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLCJ2fBBavCJE8m311eCdtNScTuIAhGjnY&si=tZC-l6iaDV_PoZkr
Counselor and coach Thais Gibson's playlist on attachment styles: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL0EkRjSLGY_SW5LsXn2VlfQ06q3phwl7M&si=w683p6xZklngxeUB
Dr. Gabrielle Lyon's interview with Thais Gibson. Really helps summarize her integrated attachment theory and she gives some practical tips. https://youtu.be/Be95nOIclko?si=eH33yf1MkNcR5TSy

Previous videos to watch:
Lost Ways of Knowing: https://youtu.be/uoY4qJascmg
The Alternative to Purity Culture's Approach to Sexual Sin: Sexual Integration and Maturation: https://youtu.be/pDHBc5nP8wg
The Concupiscence Controversy | Are You Sinning just by Feeling a Fleshly Desire or Arousal? https://youtu.be/Sgr3eVjlr7g
Thoughts or Feelings? The Difference and Importance: https://youtu.be/0IzDLkU8vFI
Dismantling the Sexual Orientation Paradigm: https://youtu.be/B3-Pc5ulwXE
The Self-State Model for Self-Regulation for Sexuality: https://youtu.be/YLhWwE2RSW4
Reflecting on Theology of the Body and Total Depravity (Jesus has Our DNA): https://youtu.be/vV3iA3SNVKA
"The Sex Talk You Never Got" Book Study: https://youtu.be/9tNfNp6kqJk
Transformation from LGBTQ | Linda Seiler Interview: https://youtu.be/64tDHl0VltI
Sexuality Counseling in the 5 Streams: https://youtu.be/noCsp2e2O8w
What Happens in Reintegrative Therapy: https://youtu.be/4gz8NJKML9w
Sexual Arousal Templates: https://youtu.be/P_aH-VDwTVo
The "A" Words for Attachment-Based Needs: https://youtu.be/5Goz4fdt4G0

Timestamps:
00:05 Review of past videos on sexuality in 2024.
05:00 Introducing a broader psychological understanding of transformation.
08:51 The significance of attachment in sexual arousal templates.
10:14 A biblical survey on attachment.
18:42 Two types of learning/memory: explicit and implicit.
21:40 Schemas.
23:46 The mega-schema of attachment.
26:34 The CBT wave of psychology.
28:16 Incremental change.
32:13 Transformational change through memory reconsolidation.
33:23 Emotions make your decisions.
35:34 The problem of viewing emotions as the enemy.
36:33 Six areas to address for healing and growth.
42:24 Memory reconsolidation.
45:45 Schemas are unconsciously learned solutions to implicitly learned problems.
50:55 Childhood statistical analysis is skewed.
53:55 There's a reason you chose your response to your situation.
56:48 How memory develops.
58:07 Reactivation and disconfirmation.
59:55 Speaking the language of the unconscious.
01:02:56 The brain needs to be in learning mode.
01:03:57 Articulate the core belief.
01:06:07 Compare the belief to reality.
01:08:43 Receiving compassion from the therapist, self, and God.
01:12:46 How are same-sex sexual arousal templates solutions?
01:14:29 Summarizing the change process as a battle on two fronts.

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