Going Along to Get Along is DESTROYING Your Family

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Going Along to Get Along is DESTROYING Your Family//You thought you were keeping the peace—but what if your people-pleasing is actually destroying your relationship with your adult child?
In this video, we’re unpacking the hidden damage caused by “going along to get along.” If you’ve been walking on eggshells, constantly apologizing, or avoiding conflict to stay connected—you’re not alone. But this pattern doesn’t build connection. It builds resentment and distance.
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Why people-pleasing increases emotional disconnection

How boundaries are a bridge—not a barrier

The real reason your adult child may be pulling away

And what you can do today to stop losing yourself in the process

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0:00 - Going Along to Get Along is DESTROYING Your Family
0:45 - The Cost of Keeping the Peace
03:43 - People Pleasing vs. Authenticity
06:36 - Boundaries as a Path to Connection
07:36 - Taking Action for Change

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