Why You Feel Drained Around Certain People

Ever talk to someone and walk away feeling… off?

Your chest tightens.
Your thoughts get loud.
Your vibe crashes.

And you blame yourself.
“Maybe I’m just tired…”
“Maybe I’m overthinking…”

But deep down — you know the truth.
**That wasn’t a conversation. It was an energy transaction.**
And you paid the price.

Some people don’t connect with you…
They *plug into* you.
Because they’ve lost connection with their own source.

And here’s what hurts the most:
You keep letting it happen — not because you’re weak…

But because your nervous system was wired to survive by overgiving.
By people-pleasing. By peacekeeping. By abandoning your own energy to soothe someone else’s chaos.

This pattern?
It runs deeper than mindset.
It’s trauma. It’s programming. It’s unconscious. But it doesn’t have to stay that way.

You’re allowed to protect your energy like your life depends on it — because it does.

You’re allowed to feel good without guilt.
You’re allowed to stop bleeding light into people who only feel safe in darkness.

You’re not crazy for feeling heavy around certain people.
You’re just sensitive enough to notice what most ignore.

You don’t need to cut people off.
You just need to stop unplugging from yourself.

If you’ve been feeling tired for no reason…
If your spark disappears around certain energies…
It’s time to listen to your body.

Because it remembers what your mind is trying to forget.

Let this be the moment you stop abandoning your power — and start coming home to it.

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00:00 – why you feel drained
00:45 – how energy vampires trigger you
01:16 - your energy is valuable
02:17 – boundaries
03:07 – take back the power
04:07 – stop feeding chaos
05:07 – familiarity
06:09 – fear of the unknown
07:10 – break patterns
08:05 - overgiving vs Over-Taking
08:50 – accountability
09:52 – subconscious patterns
10:45 – inner child wounds
12:35 – childhood patterns
13:15 – healing your inner child
14:00 – duality
14:00 - being authentic
17:10 - final words
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