How do I find Marriage as a Single Person?

Join Monica Hansen and Pastor David Chotka , they discuss the complexities of **marriage** and **dating**. They explore how to approach **relationships**, whether you're **single** or part of a group, and offer **relationship advice**. Tune in for insights on pursuing a fulfilling partnership.. Discover how authentic Christian bonding happens when God arranges circumstances beyond our control, leading two broken hearts to healing and lasting marriage. Learn the difference between worldly attraction and godly relationship building, plus biblical principles for finding a spouse who makes you more like Jesus. This episode offers hope and practical wisdom for singles, married couples, and anyone seeking God's will in relationships.

Key Takeaways
1. Divine Appointments vs. Human Planning

God orchestrates circumstances and "coincidences" when we're faithfully walking with Him, not forcing our own agenda. Pastor David's story shows how a simple moving arrangement led to 10 days in an empty apartment, prayer partnerships, and ultimately marriage - all unplanned by human design.

2. The Foundation of Godly Relationships

True Christian bonding follows God's order: spiritual friendship first, then prayer partnership, followed by genuine friendship, and finally romantic attraction. When you're with your potential spouse, they should make you more like Jesus and more authentically yourself.

3. God Will Never Distract You From Himself

The key principle for relationship discernment: Does this person draw you closer to God or away from Him? Your soulmate should compel you to study Scripture more, live more honestly, and grow in Christian character - not distract you from your walk with Jesus.

4. Healing and Restoration in Relationships

Both Pastor David and Elizabeth were broken-hearted and sworn off romance when God brought them together. This demonstrates how God can heal past wounds and restore trust when we're focused on Him rather than seeking relationships in our own strength.

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Read the story of Isaac and Rebecca (Genesis 24) and Jacob and Rachel (Genesis 29) to see biblical examples of how God orchestrates divine appointments in relationships.