The One Shift That Can Transform How You See Your Spouse

Think of marriage like a pair of binoculars.

When you’re dialed in and focused on the right thing, everything becomes clearer. You see your spouse with sharper perspective, and what once felt blurry starts to make sense.

But when the focus is off? The picture gets distorted. Small flaws look massive. Distance feels greater than it really is. Frustration grows.

Sometimes in marriage, the problem isn’t the relationship—it’s what we’re choosing to zoom in on. Are you focused only on the faults, the little irritations, the disappointments?

Or are you willing to shift the lens—to zoom out and see the bigger picture, to zoom in on what’s good, or to adjust your perspective altogether?

That shift in focus can transform the way you see your spouse… and the way your spouse feels seen.

Inside Marriage in Bloom—my six-month marriage intensive—you’ll learn how to reframe perspectives, reset communication patterns, and see each other through a healthier, more loving lens.

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