John Piper - Honor Thy Wife or Chivalry?

John Piper speaks of 1 Peter 3:7 as the husband owing his wife honor, but the way he uses it, it sounds an awful lot like Chivalry and not what Scripture actually describes of the husband/ wife relationship. The PostMillMan will opine.

Here is the Original Clip:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JIoLEohNHoI