Why It’s Better to Be Different Than Expect Different

It’s tempting to sit back and wish your spouse would change.
If only they listened better.
If only they communicated more clearly.
If only they valued what I value.

But the fastest way to see change in your marriage isn’t by demanding it from your partner—it’s by modeling it yourself.

If you want a better listener, become one.
If you want more kindness, give it first.
If you want healthier communication, practice it yourself.

Real transformation doesn’t come from pointing fingers—it comes from leading with example. And when you model the change you want to see, you invite your spouse into a healthier rhythm, one choice at a time.

That’s the work we do in Marriage in Bloom, my six-month marriage intensive designed to help couples break unhealthy patterns and build new ones rooted in respect, trust, and connection.

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