Why Competing With Your Spouse Will Always Leave You Both Losing

Marriage was never designed to be a competition—it’s a covenant. Yet so often, pride, ego, and the need to be “right” creep in and turn our spouse into our opponent.

But what if you left your ego at the door? What if you stopped fighting to win and started fighting for each other? Real growth in marriage comes when two people trade competition for collaboration—when humility, patience, and understanding replace one-upmanship.

Imagine the shift: fewer battles over who’s right, more progress toward building something together. That’s not weakness—it’s strength. That’s not giving in—it’s choosing covenant over competition.

If you’re ready to experience this kind of transformation, Marriage in Bloom—a six-month intensive designed to heal, strengthen, and reconnect couples—can help you rebuild on the right foundation.
Learn more at debbiecaudle.com/therapy-for-christian-couples
.
#marriageinbloom
#marriagehelp
#christianmarriage
#relationshipadvice