Why One Simple List Could Redefine Your Marriage

Sometimes the most powerful shifts in marriage begin with the simplest exercises. Take two words—fear and love. Google their synonyms, then write down the 25 words from each list that resonate most with you.

Maybe your fear list looks like guilt, shame, contempt, or anxiety. Maybe your love list reflects compassion, respect, kindness, and understanding.

Now ask yourself:

How is fear showing up in the way I approach my spouse?

How do I want love to reshape the way I show up in this marriage?

What do I need to do to bridge the gap?

Transformation doesn’t begin with your spouse—it begins with you.

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