Oscar Pena: How "What Makes Me a Bad Dad?" Changed Everything About My Parenting

Ever wonder how a father's presence can shape a family's entire dynamic? In this eye-opening episode, I sit down with Oscar Pena, a military veteran and girl dad extraordinaire, to explore why being present for our children isn't just important—it's essential for creating lasting connections and unforgettable memories.

Oscar shares his journey from knuckle-dragging dad to intentional father, including:
• Why asking "What makes me a bad dad?" led to a profound shift in his parenting approach
• The surprising link between a father's words and a daughter's inner voice
• How to reframe your role as a dad to be more present and mindful
• The unexpected benefits of embracing controlled chaos in family life

Plus, Oscar reveals his foolproof strategy for ensuring your kids always feel comfortable coming to you with their problems, no matter how big or small.

Key takeaways:
• The 'armor removal' mindset shift that can transform your parenting
• Why your emotional reactions are just as important as your intellectual understanding
• How to create space for difficult conversations without letting them control you
• The power of leading with love in every aspect of your life

Whether you're a new dad or a seasoned pro, this episode will challenge you to rethink your approach to parenting and inspire you to create more meaningful relationships with your children.

Ready to become the present, connected dad your kids deserve? Let's explore how small, intentional steps can lead to big changes in your family dynamic!

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Oscar Pena Time Stamps:
• 00:00:00 - Oscar's hilarious tooth-pulling adventure
• 00:05:47 - The Dad Dilemma: Balancing work and family life
• 00:12:17 - The power of mindfulness in fatherhood
• 00:24:34 - Creating meaningful connections with your kids
• 00:36:51 - Embracing the challenges of raising daughters
• 00:45:18 - Oscar's golden advice for new dads

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