Virtue by Proxy: Character Camouflage and Societal Judgement

Both sources examine the societal reliance on "proxy virtues," such as **education, marriage, and parenthood**, which function as low-effort social signals suggesting an individual possesses discipline, commitment, and good character. They both highlight that while these proxies promote social efficiency, they create a dangerous loophole where **narcissists and dark personalities** strategically acquire these symbols (like having a family) to build a credible **façade of normalcy**. This camouflage acts as a powerful shield, making it incredibly difficult for victims to be believed, as society often **rewards the appearance of virtue** rather than its genuine practice. The sources conclude by urging a shift away from relying on these shortcuts toward **evaluating consistent, nuanced behavior** and prioritizing actions over symbolic capital.