Our Kids Offending Us is More About us Than Them

Our kids offending us is more about us than them. If they make us angry, it’s because we are angry and their behavior was our excuse to vent.No person has the ability to “make” us anything.

How quick we are to snap depends on how much anger is already present in us. The more fearful our outlook on life depends on how much fear is present in us. Our stressed reactions depend on how stressed we are with our own lives.

When our kids say hurtful things to us, it’s because they are hurting, from us or the world. The last thing they need is the person they love most to crush them.

What they need most is an in control guide to help them.