Why Your Wife Won’t Submit | Biblical Leadership with Owen Strachan

What does it really mean to lead your home the way God designed? This one’s for the guys—Dr. Owen Strachan unpacks what real, Christlike leadership looks like—not through dominance or silence, but through courage, sacrifice, and grace—and how when you love, lead, and live out your faith as God designed, your wife and your life will get immensely better.

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Our Guest:
Dr. Owen Strachan

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Timestamps:
0:00 Intro
2:59 What discourages men to lead
3:51 Sharing his testimony
7:11 Headship vs. rulership
9:23 How a Godly man should bring calmness to a chaotic home after work
12:28 How he’s training his son to be a Godly leader & man
14:24 Self-assessment for Godly men
15:53 Should husbands let their wives stay home?
17:27 Allie Beth Stuckey & the role of women
22:05 Ads
24:22 What’s required to make marriages last
29:16 Secular marriage advice
31:15 How satan tempts couples with transactional marriages
34:41 How God works on us in marriage
35:39 How to repent to your spouse
39:13 Marriage is a Gospel issue
40:14 Ads
42:18 Realistic expectations in a Biblical marriage
45:21 Why you need to get plugged into a church
51:30 How to love your wife with understanding
53:28 Patriarchy surge in Christian marriages
59:02 Should women submit to tyranny & sin?
1:00:09 Ads
1:02:26 Do men care about respect or love more?
1:06:33 How should a husband lead when he’s less spiritually mature?
1:08:07 Encouragement to men who want to lead
1:09:20 Should women SAVE men from THIS?
1:10:50 Saying “No” to your husband
1:14:36 Self-driven vs. Godly singleness
1:16:33 The truth about Bible studies & churches
1:18:15 About his books

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