Permission to Play

In this conversation, Mordy Gottlieb discusses the complexities surrounding forgiveness, particularly in the context of trauma and personal responsibility. He emphasizes the importance of recognizing blame and not internalizing guilt for the actions of others, advocating for a shift in perspective from forgiveness to accountability.

Takeaways
Forgiveness can sometimes lead to self-blame.
It's important to separate personal responsibility from the actions of others.
Victims should not feel guilty for the actions taken against them.
Forgiveness should not come at the cost of self-acceptance.
Understanding the root of trauma is essential for healing.
Blame should be directed towards the perpetrator, not the victim.
Self-forgiveness is crucial in the healing process.
Acknowledging one's pain is the first step to recovery.
The narrative around forgiveness needs to change.
Empowerment comes from recognizing one's own worth.