You Don’t Realize… But You Still Obey the One Who Hurt You

You don’t realize it… but you may still obey the one who hurt you.

Even if that person is no longer in your life, their voice can still live inside your mind:
the rules you follow, the risks you don’t take, the love you don’t accept, the way you treat yourself.

In this video, we’ll talk about how you can still obey the one who hurt you without noticing, and how this hidden loyalty keeps you stuck in the same patterns.

We’ll explore:

How childhood wounds and past relationships program your beliefs and choices
Subtle ways you still obey the one who hurt you in your daily life
Why you feel guilty when you choose yourself, rest, or set boundaries
How fear, shame and trauma keep you loyal to the person who caused you pain
Gentle steps to stop obeying old voices and start listening to your own
This is not about blaming the past forever. It’s about finally seeing how much power it still has over you — and taking that power back.

If this resonates with you, comment:
“I don’t want to obey my pain anymore” so I know this video reached you. 💛