I was an Overgrown, Irresponsible Manchild until 30. Relax, You'll be fine :)

Thought I'd post this here, since I got feedback on this video from another post I made over a year ago where I just dropped this video in the comments.

https://i.imgur.com/HHthweM.png

I just dropped a video recently on something I don't think enough of us brown guys talk about honestly — the quiet shame of feeling behind in life.

I was 30, smoking weed, depressed, socially anxious, broke, 28% body fat, living in fear of what others thought of me.

No career.
No money.
No clarity.

And somehow… within 3-5 years, I built a shredded physique, overcame social anxiety, cold approached over 1500+ women, had amazing relationships, and launched a six-figure business, from SCRATCH.

This isn’t some self-help hype. This is me — a REAL desi from an "authentic" Indian family, raised on engineering dreams, lack of encouragement/support, brutally hard work, guilt, and obedience.

If you’ve ever thought:
“I’m too late”
“Everyone else has it figured out”
“Why am I still struggling?”

Then I made this for you.

You’re not "lazy". You’re just lost.

And most importantly... you CAN find your way.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oqjl-bbuNUQ

Timestamps/Topics :

0:00 – Teaser Trailer
1:04 – I was an Irresponsible Manchild until 30 :)
3:59 – 31yo Virgin Life Transformation
6:29 – You're not Lazy... You're LOST!
7:09 – Client Example
10:09 – Fear causes Procrastination
11:09 – Recognize the Shiny Object Syndrome in your Life
12:16 – Pick. ONE. Thing & DEMOLISH it.
13:24 – Why a 6 pack will SAVE Your Life
15:09 – Andrew Tate's advice to a Depressed Young Man
16:19 – STOP. DELUDING. YOURSELF.
17:34 – First Set.
20:04 – Why Strength Training is NOT a Good idea on a Cut
21:31 – Your Parents raised you for a different era
23:49 – Look forward to making mistakes
26:13 – Your 20s are SUPPOSED to be Messy as hell
33:42 – The Value of Self Imposed Struggle
35:24 – At LEAST you're not a drug addict
35:54 – At least you didn't marry the Wrong Woman
42:39 – At least you don't have a Kid young
43:04 – At least you ENJOYED your Life
46:24 – Even if you were to Die tomorrow having not accomplished a single thing, that's FINE.
50:59 – I accomplished EVERYTHING while Fapping & Gaming
53:19 – It's not "Too Late for me!!!". STFU.
56:34 – 20 is the new 12. 30 is the new 20.
59:29 – Develop your Gut Instinct | Learn to Think for Yourself
1:00:27 – Learn to first work SMART. Then, HARD.
1:03:54 – The MOST Valuable Takeaway I can give you
1:06:19 – How a 6 Pack will CURE your Depression

If you’ve gone through similar phases, I'd love to hear about your journey too.