The Born Again Christian

What does it mean to be born again and at what point are you really born again? There is a misconception, among evangelical/Pentecostal/and some protestant Christians, that you are born again at the instant of confessing and accepting Jesus as your Lord and Savior (after saying a sinner's prayer); this is absolutely FALSE and is NOT the message of Jesus Christ. You are born again during baptism; you MUST be baptized, only then are you born again. This is the message from Jesus Himself, not me. Many Christians actually think they are born again because they say so, but they are not because they are yet to be baptized. When you are baptized, your chances of being saved is high; you are absolutely sure you are saved only after you're dead and have made it to Heaven, you can't be sure as long as you're still on earth, this is why you should be humble at all times, always pray to God for strength through earthly trials (that are inevitable for all Christians) and never judge others.