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Hey everyone — it’s Leaflit! In today’s video I’m reacting to The Crucible’s “TikTok Invasion - Andrew Wilson Debates Pick Me’s”, where Andrew Wilson goes to TikTok and confronts the idea that women who say positive things about men online are automatically “pick me’s.”

So what is a “pick-me” anyway? On social media, especially TikTok, the term has come to mean someone who’s seen as seeking male attention by distancing themselves from other women or putting other women down — basically trying to appeal to men to be “chosen” over other girls.

But in this clip Andrew pushes back on that simplistic narrative. Instead of labeling any woman who defends or compliments men as a pick-me, he makes an important distinction: there’s a huge difference between seeking validation and genuinely acknowledging good qualities. Some women aren’t trying to compete for male attention — they’re sincerely appreciating character, strength, respect, and mutual support, and that deserves recognition, not ridicule.

I’m supportive of Andrew Wilson here. He challenges a toxic oversimplification of a trending term and highlights that not all positive comments about men are rooted in insecurity or male validation. Some women speak positively about men because they genuinely recognize value, teamwork, respect, and healthy masculine traits — and that’s okay.

I’m critical of how the “pick-me” label is sometimes thrown around. The term originally referred to a specific pattern of behavior — usually characterized by demeaning other women to appeal to men — but online culture has stretched it to mean anything positive about men, which isn’t fair or logical.

Women — and people generally — shouldn’t be dismissed or mocked just because they *don’t conform to a particular social media stereotype. Respectful admiration and genuine compliments are not inherently about pleasing anyone; they can simply be honest appreciation.

If you think people should be allowed to express positive views without being slapped with shallow labels, hit Like, Subscribe, and ring that bell. Comment below: Have you seen the term “pick-me” used unfairly online? What’s one example where the label gets misapplied or overused?

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