Q&A Trauma Healing and Life Counseling * Q45

Question 45

"Hello Gopal, I ve recently started doing honest sharing with my partner and my mind is projecting things that my partner is shocked about at the point he is telling me he doesn’t know me anymore and that I don’t care about his feelings sharing all this inside of me. Also, that this is disconnecting him even more from me and it’s going from worse and worse. Am I doing something wrong here or is he too much identified with what I am sharing, even though I told him that that’s only what my mind is projecting but I know it’s not true. He tries to protect himself by telling me he is not that person and that I am very disconnected from reality. Also, that this is [not?] constructive and when do we have a peaceful moment and talk about something else? Thank you for your guidance."

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