What if I Never Meet My Person?

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It seems like it’s simpler times— like my grandparents’ era— The goal was to marry for survival, companionship,
and to build a family.

Sometimes the love evolved or grew with time.

Now that we are a more liberated nation as a whole (at least in North America), we are able to wait and Mary are true love like the movies—fireworks and all.

But yet, I see more single people than ever and read that we are experiencing some of the lowest rates of marriage in history.

It makes me wonder, being 35 and single myself, and having left the wrong relationships (One of which was quite significant where I did have a ton of passion with my ex and we almost got engaged, but he sadly suffered from addictions, so I chose to leave), what if the RIGHT (total package) guy never comes around?

Does research suggest you’d be happier on your own, or with a person with whom you are compatible, but yet don’t have that full romantic passion with?

I mean, I DREAM for the total package that you always talk about. But the loneliness epidemic on the rise, and I’m feeling the pinch myself— even though I have great girlfriends and what not in my life— I sometimes wonder if companionship is better than nothing at all.

Also, on the topic of chemistry not always being there, how many days is a safe number of days to go on, when you aren’t turning someone down to soon before you’ve given it a fair chance to potentially blossom into real chemistry and romantic potential, but where you aren’t also wasting time or burning yourself out, waiting for something that just isn’t there?

Any tips or”rules of thumb” on gushing this?